Why You Shouldn’t Give Up

Ren D
4 min readOct 14, 2019
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A master is just a novice that kept practicing. A black belt is a white belt that continued to show up. A professional writer is a writer that started with penny stories. We all have to start somewhere. It’s important to remember this as you’re on your respective journey because there will undoubtedly be challenging moments.

When I first started Jiu Jitsu, I felt like an idiot. I had no idea what I was doing. I repeatedly told myself that black belts are white belts that didn’t quit. This helped keep me in the journey. Two years later, I am a blue belt that tells myself black belts are blue belts that didn’t quit. I’m one step closer.

Committing to learning something is essential for growth. I have a couple things I am focused on at the moment. For each one, I am a beginner. I acknowledge I don’t know much. But, I am committed to learning as much as possible so that I can eventually not be a beginner. Writing is included in this. I am not the best writer. I’ve been writing throughout my life but never consistently. I am now spending more time writing with the hope of improving. I’m reading much more as well.

It takes roughly 10,000 hours to become a master. I have roughly 250 hours of Jiu Jitsu. I am not close to being a master, but I am also no longer a novice. I am treating my writing in the same way. If I commit to writing and reading everyday, I will eventually get to my 10,000 hours. While that still may not put food on the table, it will get me one step closer.

If you’re considering quitting anything, keep this in mind. If you quit, you’ll never have the chance to be successful. By stopping you are removing any chance you had at getting to your goal. If you focus on each step of the journey and not the destination, you will one day arrive at the destination.

When you’re thinking about quitting, consider the following:


Are you finding enjoyment in your journey? Are you happy about the time you’ve put in and what you are getting out of it? If you aren’t happy, there’s no point in proceeding to the destination. Commitment to learn your art or activity must bring you enjoyment. If it doesn’t, it is not the right journey for you.

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Ren D

Jill of all trades, master of none. I write about self-awareness, personal growth, life lessons, and parenting.