Securely attached men are not expecting to be put up on a pedestal. They are on the same level of ground that you are on. They don’t check on you constantly or get possessive when you are out with friends.Do You Date Based On Strong Attraction? That Might Be A Problem.722Amy Mehta ParmarRen D·Nov 24, 2020Completely agreed! Secure men are comfortable in you having your own life. It's essential for an equal partnership.